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The meeting

A friends’ lunch, of the ordinary kind. They had known of each other for a while without ever having spoken. That afternoon they did, and the conversation has not really stopped since.

Sneha and Vishaak standing close together by the sea at dusk, her hand at his cheek

The knowing

Neither of them wanted to hurry it. But underneath the caution, she says, was a quiet, steady familiarity, like we had known each other before we knew each other.

Vishaak is the calm to my storm. Being with him feels like coming home after a long day to a warm blanket and a hot cup of coffee.

Sneha

Not even an ocean could argue them out of it. One evening they finally said it aloud. A year later he crossed that ocean to be with her, and it has been, in her words, nothing but magical since.

The proposal

He was finishing his masters in Boston; she was in Dallas, and he was about to move. On a trip within Dallas they walked out near a riverbed, pulling each other’s leg as usual, and he produced the ring and asked the question.

What stays with her most is not that moment but the evening after it: dinner at a restaurant on a cliff above the river, and a sky she still talks about. She has always loved skies.

That one felt like it had been painted just for us.

Sneha
Sneha showing the ring on her hand by the riverbed, Vishaak beside her

The stone

Why a diamond, in her own reasoning: because nothing else holds light quite like it. A diamond does not simply sit there. It takes in everything around it and gives it back brighter.

That felt like us: strong, unshaken, and always finding a way to shine, even through the distance.

Sneha

The ring

It is an old mine cut, the antique style of the 1800s, cut by hand in a way that gives a soft, romantic glow rather than the sharp flash of a modern brilliant. Beside it sit two tapered baguettes, so the ring carries three stones in all.

Three stones, for the three sacred knots.

The old mine cut ring being placed on Sneha's hennaed hand

The day

The rings were exchanged in front of both families, with jasmine at their shoulders and the lamp lit beside them.

Vishaak placing the ring on Sneha's finger at the ceremony, both garlanded
Sneha and Vishaak exchanging rings with both families gathered around them
A real old mine cut diamond, the cut of Sneha’s stone
Centre stoneOld mine cut
Side stonesTwo tapered baguettes
DetailThree stones, for the three sacred knots
Published with the couple’s consent. Vummidi Nandagopal Sons, Chennai.