The ring designer

Design your ring, in the round

Six questions, asked the way our gemologist asks them, with your ring taking shape in 3D as you answer. About two minutes; nothing to sign up for.

  1. Stone
  2. Shape
  3. Setting
  4. Weight
  5. Quality
  6. Metal

A ring for the gathering

In the South, the ring rarely waits for a candlelit table. It changes hands at the Nischitartham, the betrothal, with both families watching, once the plates of fruit and flowers have crossed and the date has been fixed. Often there is the ungarala marpidi, the exchange of rings, made standing, in daylight, to applause.

A ring made for that room carries different duties than a ring made for a private proposal. It will be examined by grandmothers and passed between aunts. It will sit on a hand beside jewellery four generations old, and it will be judged in that company. It must be beautiful on the day it is given, and still beautiful forty years on. This is the standard we make to.

నిశ్చితార్థంNischitartham, the betrothal

ఉంగరాల మార్పిడిUngarala marpidi, the exchange of rings

A man on one knee in a garden, holding his partner's hand as he offers the ring
Two ring boxes open side by side on red, an oval solitaire and a band
Sneha holding up her hand to show her ring, Vishaak beside her by a lake
Abhilash on one knee, placing the oval diamond ring on Shanmathi's finger at their ceremony
Shanmathi and Abhilash sitting close together, foreheads touching

A table, not a counter

You sit down. The stones come out loose, with their GIA Reports beside them, and you may hold them to the light for as long as the decision takes. A colourless diamond or an antique cut, a ruby or a sapphire, the stone is chosen at the tray and not before it, because what suits one hand and one budget does not suit the next. A fifth-generation GIA gemologist explains what you are looking at in plain terms, including the trade-offs nobody advertises.

Nothing is made until you have said yes to a drawing, down to the prong profile and the width of the band. A third of the price reserves your stone. The ring is then cast, set, and finished in our own workshop, five weeks at the outside, and you collect it from the same table where it began.

Chapter I

The stone

A diamond, or a ruby, a sapphire, an emerald. South Indian jewellery wore coloured stones long before the solitaire arrived, and the house chooses each to its own standard.

Chapter II

The shape

The stone's outline seen from above. It decides how the ring wears and how it sits on the hand. There are no rules here, only preferences.

Chapter III

The setting

After the stone, the setting decides most of how the ring looks: how the stone sits on the hand, how light enters it, and how secure it stays over decades of daily wear.

Chapter IV

The four Cs

Every GIA Report gives four measurements: cut, colour, clarity and carat. Three are the house's responsibility before you arrive. The fourth, carat, is yours.

Cut

Excellent, nothing below

The only C decided by human skill, and the one that decides whether a stone seems lit from within. Antique cuts predate the scale and are judged the old way, by eye, against the light.

The GIA cut scale

  1. Excellent
  2. Very good
  3. Good
  4. Fair
  5. Poor

Where the house sets it

A simplified section through a round brilliant, with illustrative angles.

Colour

D, E and F only

D is colourless, Z light yellow. The house sets only the top three grades, where a diamond reads as pure white in any light. Past Z, colour becomes the point: fancy yellows, pinks and champagnes are available to commission.

The GIA colour scale

  1. D
  2. E
  3. F
  4. G
  5. H
  6. I
  7. J
  8. K
  9. L
  10. M
  11. N
  12. O
  13. P
  14. Q
  15. R
  16. S
  17. T
  18. U
  19. V
  20. W
  21. X
  22. Y
  23. Z

Where the house sets it

D colourless: the house
H near colourless
M faint yellow

Illustrative tints, deepened so the difference shows on a screen. Seen loose, face down on white, the steps are subtler.

Clarity

IF and VVS1

Clean not only to the naked eye, but under the loupe a jeweller will one day put to them. At these grades a trained eye at ten times magnification finds nothing, or a pinpoint it has to hunt for.

The GIA clarity scale

  1. FL
  2. IF
  3. VVS1
  4. VVS2
  5. VS1
  6. VS2
  7. SI1
  8. SI2
  9. I1
  10. I2
  11. I3

Where the house sets it

IF under a 10× loupe: nothing to find
SI2 crystals and a feather at 10×

Drawn, not photographed: what a gemologist looks for through the loupe.

Carat

The weight the hand asks for

Weight, not size: a 1.00 ct diamond weighs 0.2 grams. An Excellent 0.90 ct faces up larger than a mediocre 1.00 ct, so always put cut before carat. This is the one C we leave to you, and to your budget.

1.00 ct about 6.5 mm across

Drawn to scale against each other; the dashed ring is 1.00 ct.

Chapter V

The metal

The band meets the skin every day, for decades. There is no wrong answer; when in doubt, yellow gold has been the choice of South Indian brides for four thousand years.

Chapter VI

The budget

The "two months' salary" rule was written by De Beers' advertising agency. It has nothing to do with love, or with the quality of a ring.

Spend what lets you be proud of the ring without strain in the months after. We suggest about 60% to the stone and 40% to the setting and craft: a poorly set stone shows more than an imperfect stone perfectly set.

The stone, about 60%—

Setting and craft, about 40%—

The ring designer

Design your ring, in the round

Six questions, asked the way our gemologist asks them, with your ring taking shape in 3D as you answer. About two minutes; nothing to sign up for.

  1. Stone
  2. Shape
  3. Setting
  4. Weight
  5. Quality
  6. Metal
“The best engagement ring is not the most expensive one. It is the one she will never want to take off.”
Vummidi Nandagopal Sons

Begin with a conversation

Bring the question. We will help with everything after it.